I love and hate time.
I don’t believe in time per se, not as a strictly regulated measured thing. I think of it more as a malleable substance that (with practice) can be manipulated. And with just the tiniest amount of neglect, can run away (forever).
Some years ago I worked an office job Tuesday to Friday. It worked out well. I did my own thing on the weekends and took Mondays off. Sometimes I took a 3 day break. I enjoyed that choice of freedoms.
Then things changed: I switched to just Thursday-Friday in the office.
And time went totally out of control.
Suddenly I had a 5-day stretch of not exactly weekend, and before I knew it I was beginning another ‘week’. The whole thing spiraled out of control and the weeks and months flew at a devastating rate. I didn’t enjoy this and only lasted it out less than a year (which felt like a lot less!)
Sure, I know many folks who wish their working weeks away, but that’s wishing away a lifetime bit by bit. If you hate your work, change it, don’t rush through in the hope that one day you’ll be on vacation, retired, dead, or whatever is lined up next.
Nowadays I work for myself. I have some regular routines, but they’re all flexible. I wake up early and have long days (thank you insomnia – some days are verrrry long!)
I think the key is to keep mixing it up.
My newest routine is the page-a-week art journal. Today starts week 3, which as the year began on a Thursday, so now do my weeks (in a sense).
It’s helped lift the pressure of the Monday to Friday VS Saturday/Sunday rut that’s so ingrained. One week ends on a Wednesday, Another begins the next, another ends the next. Perhaps it’s like I’m squeezing 2 weeks into every 7 days, but it’s really slowed it down to a manageable pace!
5 thoughts on “the midweek weekend”
Yeah, freedom like that surprisingly requires a lot of discipline!
For sure, I agree it’s not for everyone. I love being busy, so it works well for me. Of course busy doesn’t always mean productive or efficient tho! 😉
I understand this completely. The experience of time is a wondrous thing. For me it slows down when I am traveling or have a lot to do. It speeds up when I am daydreaming. I’ll have to watch this process more carefully. 🙂
and like in the quantum world, it behaves differently when it knows u r watching! 😉
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